That special time you just had together was perfect. You gave love, you received love and you shared love. It was completely harmonious. But often, the harmony can end there.
Men and women have different biological needs and responses. She may want to bask in the afterglow of your special time by expressing her hopes and dreams for your future together. Whereas it’s in his nature to contemplate a trip to the fridge but then fall asleep.
Videojug is here to help balance your relationship, yin and yang, with our guide to restoring harmony in the bedroom.
Step 1: Advice For Him
You may feel that you’ve expressed yourself quite enough. Perhaps you’ve expressed yourself a number of times and feel spent. But it’s essential that you stay awake for long enough to make her feel loved.
You may have to fight the urge to sleep, but remember now it’s time for her to unload all over you. Speed up the process by encouraging noises and agreeing to everything she says.
The past master of this was Marlon Brando who put his incredible success with women down to propping himself up his elbow which made him look interested in whatever the lady had to say even if he was actually falling asleep.
Step 2: Advice For Her
Be aware he will be exhausted. After all, you gave him more love than he could cope with. So try and keep your talks of hopes and dreams of the future to a minimum. And certainly, don’t expand into more mundane issues like household chores, work gossip or whatever was on your mind while your were expressing your love.
And if it had been instigated as a way of defusing an argument or a growl it’s very important to avoid brining up the argument again especially as his defenses are now down and it would be too easy.